I Got You

A grandfather has a quiet, powerful role in shaping the life of a grandson. In a world that is changing faster than ever—and growing harder to navigate—young men need a strong, loving, and protective presence. They need someone who has lived long enough to say, “I’ve been there,” and steady enough to say, “You’ll be okay.”

Today’s world throws constant noise at young people: headlines, peer pressure, easy answers to hard questions. A grandfather offers something different—love, guidance, and wisdom earned over time.

Family stories matter. They anchor a young man, reminding him who he comes from and what his family has survived. And yes, sometimes you can inject a little humor—never let the truth get in the way of a good story.

But more than stories, a grandson watches how you live. How you treat waiters. Whether you keep promises. If you admit mistakes. How you speak about others. This is where integrity is taught without lectures. Let him know it’s okay to feel confused, scared, or overwhelmed. Strong men struggle—and keep going.

Teach him how to question what he reads on his phone, resist peer pressure, and think for himself. Teach him not what to think, but how to think. Show respect for women in your words and actions; that example will shape how he understands love, partnership, and respect.

A grandfather won’t always be there, but his words can be. Write him a letter gives him guidance when he is really going to need it—when you're no longer there.